- "But I would have delayed-for how long postponed?-having to learn the language of public society. I would have evaded and for how long could I have afforded to delay?-learning the great lesson of school, that I had a public identity"
- This quote by Richard reflects the fact that his ability to use the English language can reflect on his public identity. Not having proficiency in English can lead to public ridicule. The effort to force the language onto his family brought that feeling of ridicule to his house, a place where should have felt safe to speak the language he wanted to.

- " One night his children and even his wife helplessly giggled at his garbled English pronunciation of the Catholic Grace before Meals."
- This is the idea of ridiculing people who cannot speak good English being brought to Richard's home. The father feels like less of a person because he cannot speak English well. This even shakes up to dynamic at home, with the wife now taking charge of financial decisions and even saying grace at home. This has now isolated the father, who now only has real confidants in other fluent Spanish speakers.

- "Sentences needed to be spoken slowly when a child addressed their father or mother."
- With the kid's primary language now being English, this made it more difficult to communicate with the parents. Since the parents were not as fluent as the kids but still tried to speak purely in Spanish, the kids would not bother talking to the parents because they would run the risk of the parent not being able to understand them.


